+TruFemcels

Welcome to +TruFemcels! This sub is a female-only community.

TruFemcels is a safe space that caters to femcels and women who relate to them for the purpose of discussion, venting, support, and community.

What is a femcel?

A femcel or a female celibate is an adult woman who is below average in physical appearance (<4/10) or suffers a significant impediment that prevents her from securing a romantic relationship- NOT sex.

Sex is available to most (not all) women so long as it is done IN SERVICE of men. This DOES NOT resolve loneliness and is often the pretext for abusive power dynamics.

In a culture where lookism means many men feel comfortable mistreating women they use sexually but are not attracted to, many femcels rely on celibacy to protect them from the worst of casual sex culture.

The world is unkind to the unattractive women. Here, you can be brutally honest about it, seek a way OUT of femceldom, or find comfort if you're stuck. Take heart. Make yourself at home. ❤️

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Why are people always treat ugly women getting plastic surgery or even just wearing makeup to look prettier as some sort of tragedy?

Like she is successful, good for her! I genuinely don’t see what the problem is. If anything, it’s great, because it not only means she...

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Even in spiritual circles they are as superficial as they can be, i give up

Since I have explored so many spiritual paths, I have met quite a varied amount of men that come from all walks of life, and all of them...

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Thoughts on facial feminization

I know this has been brought up before. ....I have to admit, I actually don't understand how it can be justified that someone born as...

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suspended from reddit for the nth time

There's anyone else to talk to about this all, I know it isn't femcel related. 2 years ago, I made the mistake of calling someone a...

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Talking to normies about lookism is futile

Just had a bad experience talking to this stupid bitch on TikTok, on a video of someone saying femcels victimise themselves and we just...

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I will never be able to fully accept this no matter how much I try to convince myself like there isn't much I could do

All the staring, disgusted looks from both genders I get when I go out makes it even harder to accept this. I try ignoring as much as I...

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Jaw stuff is so triggering to me now

I also hate that mouth breathing nonsense because then people look at people with jaw issues as those with lesser intelligence or...

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Guy Explains How Conventionally Unattractive Women Have It Worse

Clearheaded empathy is refreshing. Comment section is illiluminated in pink.

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Rant

This happened today, there was a pretty women in front of me who this one guy offered a ride in his tiny golf cart type vehicle as the...

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Sensitivity is met with anger and irritance when you're an ugly woman

Or people find it funny and ridicule you for it or people try to use it as an opportunity to bully you. It gets to the point where...

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Why can't we have our own looksmaxxing rating place here like incels do on their looksmax forum

Place where we post our face and could offer brutally honest hardmaxxing and softmaxxing advice accordingly, even honest to actually...

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friends hanging out without me

i have a handful of friends but most of us live far away from each other so its not convenient for us to hang out more than 2-3 times a...

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They're young but a perfect example of how dumb lookism is

The darker skinned girl has her lighter skinned, thinner friend in the video and the brainless idiots in the comments are saying she's a...

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As an ugly women you have to be super altruistic otherwise you get labelled a bitch that deserves all the horrible shit that happens to you

We have to be the perfect victims in order for people to feel sympathy for us (not that we need sympathy in the first). We have to...

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Another reason I can’t have a daughter

The brainwashing for girls to start objectifying themselves and caring about their looks starts young. My sister is a preteen and...

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99/100 people I come across in real life literally think I'm "special"/mentally disabled/not all there

Really. e.g. someone asked me to do something and I postponed it because I very obviously had other tasks I was working on, and another...

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Ugly with bad personality stereotype is a self-fulfilling prophecy

There are practically no ugly women in my line of work. I met a few that are maybe a bit below average, maybe a bit unkempt and...

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My Sisters: Today I am Free. I have moved out of my mother’s house

Not to be dramatic or anything

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Unpopular opinion: I sometimes like hearing bluepilled cope

Even though I know deep down inside it is all bs and reality would hit me back later anyways but sometimes bluepilled cope keeps me...

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When you guys have a crush on someone..

Do you feel like you love and hate him at the same time?

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Femcel trait: Your dumbass clueless parents gave you a dumb and trashy name like "Lovepreet" (like mine)

Anyone can relate? How their parents can do something so clueless and ugly? As if being ugly wasn't enough you get saddled with a scummy...

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Why I'm scared to online date

I've seen a few videos like this where normies get in front of a camera and complain about the people they match with because they think...

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i feel so empty (vent)

for so many months now i thought i might actually get the chance to be in a relationship for the first time ever, because one of my guy...

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I hate r/ugly

It's far from "safe space for fellow uglies". First of all, it consists of hypocrites whining when lookism affects them and then...