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Whether it's hanging out with them, or doing those stupid fake message pranks asking if they want to hook up and they all reply eagerly or just anything else really.

It just really reinforces how fugly and undersireable I am that I can't even get basic human respect from the opposite sex.

These people don't even treat me like a person, let alone seeing any semblance of value in me to be able to form even just a friendship.

I'll never forget that time I tried to befriend this moid from work and he didn't even bother to contact me, after he said I'm the only person there that he actually likes there.

The pain, anguish and distress it gives me.

I've been treated like a diseased animal my entire life.

There's two types of women that don't have male friends, really beautiful ones (because they just want to fuck) and us ugly bitches.

I completely and utterly despise my existence.

Whether it's hanging out with them, or doing those stupid fake message pranks asking if they want to hook up and they all reply eagerly or just anything else really. It just really reinforces how fugly and undersireable I am that I can't even get basic human respect from the opposite sex. These people don't even treat me like a person, let alone seeing any semblance of value in me to be able to form even just a friendship. I'll never forget that time I tried to befriend this moid from work and he didn't even bother to contact me, *after* he said I'm the only person there that he actually likes there. The pain, anguish and distress it gives me. I've been treated like a diseased animal my entire life. There's two types of women that don't have male friends, really beautiful ones (because they just want to fuck) and us ugly bitches. I completely and utterly despise my existence.

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[–] effervescent 6 points (+6|-0)

it hurts knowing how different my social life could be. we don’t get to have fun and connect with people like they do

[–] antempirez 4 points (+4|-0)

This tbh. Sometimes I don't feel human and this is a huge reason why. If I were even just a low tier normie I could be going out to the movies with friends, going to sleepovers, going to the mall, etc. but instead i'm stuck in my room all day, glued to my computer. The most social interaction I get outside of my dad and stepmom is the people I talk to on discord, twitter, or here.

[–] DaiquiriNights 4 points (+4|-0)

I’ve pretty much gotten over not having male friends, but not even treating me like a human being is what pisses me off. Every other woman around me is treated nicely, but not me. It’s like I’m an alien. Then these same guys have the nerve to say I’m mean. I don’t have choice. If your gonna go out of your way to treat me like shit, you’re gonna dealt with harshly. I don’t put up with shit from anybody.

Why is it so important to you to have male friends? why not befriend other women

It's not that I want male friends, it's more so that my lack of them showcases that I'm unattractive.

Men only see attractive women.

And other women tend to not like me. They're the same really, only liking other attractive women.

[–] Hotpink 1 points (+1|-0)

Depends, sometimes it's useful to have them for networking purposes. If you work mostly with men, you need male "friends". But from emotional perspective they're rather useless.

[–] Hotpink 1 points (+1|-0)

I remember my utter disbelief when my BFF back in highschool casually mentioned that she's texting random dude from my group - they weren't friends or really attracted to each other, just normal conversation. One of many moments back then when I realised my experience is very different from everyone else's because the only reason any guy would talk to me back then was to ask me for a favour. My life improved a bit afterwards (a bit before mid 20s), but early experiences left me awkward af and I'm 30 now.

[–] effervescent 1 points (+1|-0)

omg yes this brought back memories i forgot i had! my friends would offhandedly mention talking to guys we knew and i was like wait??? you guys text each other??? ah it’s been over for me since i was like 13 lol

[–] Hotpink 1 points (+1|-0)

for real, reading trufemcels made me remember a lot of memories that I brushed off back then, but they are all making sense now.