So, I made an awful mistake of venting to my roommates about how grossly disfigured I am, and they shrugged it off like "oh come on, you'll lose weight and it'll be fine"
Sweaty, I AM losing weight but tell me - how is that supposed to shorten my NYC sized chin and being a genetic failure? 🥴
Not even is my psychologist different. She hands me copes like candy "look, X is ugly but achieved a lot", literally all of them being the male examples.
Beckys don't have the capacity to understand how much it sucks to be disgusting, nonexistent, rejected left and right. You don't exist if you're an ugly woman.
Don't even get me started on the pErSoNaLiTy MaTtErS. Sure, people do notice your personality BUT as long as you're at least a normie. It's a cope when you're 2/10 like me imo. I could be the sweetest person in this world but it doesn't mean shit when I'm nauseatingly ugly.
I hate the fact almost all girls in their early-mid 20s I've encountered are at least average, or with one easily fixable failo. And even if I encounter some below average, she's coping really hard. Sucks to have some understanding of social dynamics of ugly women.