+BlackGirlDiaries

The unfiltered version of the fabulous /r/BlackGirlDiaries created by u/BlackPorcelainDoll

The purpose of this community is to provide an unfiltered and free space for black women to interact with one another on psychologically and socially complex topics that black women face in the black community, life, relationships and friendships. The design of the community allows for black women to have complete control of the floor without interruption or policing from other races and men.

Because this is an uncensored, open space to all black women from all stages of life, all levels of attraction, with wide range of values and experiences, diversity in views are expected, and to some extent encouraged. Black women are encouraged to speak their minds and express themselves here unapologetically, but also consider that we are not a monolith and some conflict may naturally ensue.

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What It's Like Wearing Natural Hair in Corporate America
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People's unrealistic expectations of the natural hair movement

I came across a video the other day (and I've seen plenty like it) saying the natural hair movement was a flop because it didn't change...

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Why do some black people do this to themselves...

I was trying to mind my business on TikTok when this bullshit video popped up on my face. Someone screen recorded them looking at...

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Why do people get so excited at the prospect of black women getting beaten?

A TikTok about this old video popped up on my feed and everyone in the comments were talking about how funny it was and how she deserved...

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White man casually trampling black female child, the comments are applauding as per usual

I'm stunned. People are really befuddled as to why she didn't move out of the way. A — There was barely any time *for* her to...

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It's crazy how the women that have more to offer are usually the least attractive. | Sports, Hip Hop & Piff - The Coli

A mostly black male forum. > I'm scrolling on IG and see one of my old female friends taking a pic with all her PhD/med school...

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A Bad Zoom Date Led Me to the Online Black Manosphere

This is a feature in Elle this month (Jan 2022) and the face palm is forever. [See the discussion on LSA...

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Cheerleader out of step with routine for the best possible reason : MadeMeSmile
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This delusional girl

Black pickmes are truly in a league of their own when it comes to ignorance. They take common experiences that all black women go...

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Black woman fired for wearing natural hair instead of a wig, Louisiana lawsuit says
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DAE feel like you experience way more racism than sexism?

It's probably to do with the fact that I'm ugly too; I'm stripped of my womanhood and just become this annoying black creature that...

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The racism in the comments

Basically, in the UK we have the reverse issue to Americans—instead of our haircare being dominated by East Asians it's dominated by...

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When are LSBW and biracial women going to admit it?

That the 'benefits' y'all get are narcissistic triangulation? And, if you admit this, will you do better for yourself or play...

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Black men are so embarrassing

Imagine being so pathetic and insecure as a man that you think a woman being educated has anything to do with you.

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CMV: Black women have it the hardest while dating : changemyview

RIP all the black women who aren't obese or ghetto single mothers (and even the ones who are) in this openly racist thread on...

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Any other black femcels/women frustrated with the black community?

I'm not from America but black communities in the West have a lot in common. I just feel very alienated from my blackness, and it's...

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LMLY | WEBTOON - You guys should really check this out

It's a cute new romance webtoon featuring an unambiguous black girl with natural hair as the love interest. Judging by all the likes, it...

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When people do bullshit to you and you can't react because then you'll be the angry black woman

I was in a cab yesterday on my way home and everything was fine, I was on talking to someone on the phone. Then halfway through the ride...

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I'm really starting to get pissed off

I love my hair, but I'm very aware that the world doesn't. Dealing with natural hair (and tbh relaxed hair isn't any better) when you...

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Being gaslighted by black Beckie's and Naomi's

There was a thread on Lipstick Alley talking about how to get into high earning careers and honestly the stuff they were talking about...

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Dating in the Black community, as Black women, is very, very hard

For the black women who don't have this issue, I'm thrilled and celebrate on your behalf. For the black women who run into this sort...

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The belief that black people are dirty/diseased and cognitive dissonance

I literally just watched a TikTok of a girl admitting that she puts guy's pee crusted penis in her mouth, and these same people will...

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I have a thing for East African men

One messaged me online once and I fucked it up because I have issues. It wouldn't have worked anyway because I'm hit and men are...