It is an extreme pet peeve of mine. I spent years online arguing with people who say this

As I get more into normie female spaces, i learned quickly a lot of women say this too

U know who is big on this

LSA and FDS

Usually women who dont get femcels or pink pillers are big on this

"Need not worry woman about your baseless concerns because there exists a deviant—as only a pervert could ever be attracted you—who will manage to get it up for your disgusting body. Nevermind your own enjoyment, that will simply come for the fact that you made a man's penis hard. Now go on and have unsatisfactory relations with a man who sees you as a walking hole like you're supposed to"

It's like saying you're hungry and then people offering you moldy food or rat poison. Like why the fuck are you offering dangerous food to someone else if YOU wouldn't partake in it either?

When we grieve about not having a sexual connection with someone it's grief about not having an emotionally fulfilling sexual connection with someone. No one is mourning the fact we aren't being used as cumrags!

Don't tell me shit about men fucking rotten coconuts—what the fuck is that supposed to do for me? someone please tell me—quickly.

As if a man wanting to sleep with me is akin to some kind of perversion—

I don't even know. People don't THINK about things before they open their mouths. They just say the first stupid thing they can in order to shut us up and change the conversation to something else.

And someone will come along and act like they're being so profound and revolutionary for saying, "Well there's this guy with this really niche, gross, fetish—your body is gross btw—and I mean if someone's willing to do that shit, I can't see why you can't find someone to jizz on you"

God, this is EXACTLY what was happening on the cancerous "Femcels have taken over feminism and we don't like it at all" Female Political Strategy podcast.

As if our lives completely revolve around men!

Normal men not wanting to fuck us is the tip of the iceberg! Below the surface is a lifetime of ostracization, arrested development, and humiliation.

Tbh I find these kinds of people pretty shady and even kind of lowlife to began with. Deep down they’re 110% aware of how women, especially ugly women, are used and exploited. They just don’t care because it’s all about THEM and what their narcissistic ass wants in the moment. Most of the women who say this shit are average looking or very insecure and so it’s easy to trick themselves into thinking that men will love them regardless of looks. It’s a cope. And you’re not going to take the shine away from them by pointing out the ugly truth of how men discard women when they’re no longer useful because then they’ll have to deal with the fact that most men will have no mercy in doing the same to THEM when they eventually become old/fat/ugly.

And I will tell them that I had that happen. I was used for sex and fell in love with him. He didn't want me at all. Now I am even more broken.

i feel like people are deliberately trying to misconstrue your point. you're saying that we (as femcels, and women) shouldn't be saying those kind of comments to each other because its grossly demeaning regardless if it is a true statement or not.

everything you said is true.

but many men will have sex with anything. and thar should console you in the way that their attraction, attention is worthless.

it should NOT console you in the way that there's a man out there who fucks food and will likely fuck you too.

but let's take a look at the men who are picky; who only fuck barely "legal", white, thin, petite girls. me who are also extremely handsome and attractive. is the opinion of that type of men is worthy to something at all? No. because of his ridiculous pickyness; because he is a pedophile who is only held back by the law and the threat of prison. because he is porn sick and can't get it up to real life women who have healthy woman curves and faces.

also even the most attractive and kindest men out there, who are still extremely picky, don't deserve your energy because you can't win them over if you don't have the looks. basing your relationship solely on looks is shallow and says a fuck ton of how fucked up your taste is and men do that.

I absolutely understand your point though. I stillhave crying fits over the fact that I won't find a romantic relationship because I'm just not attractive enough. I still struggle with this.

but the fact that men are extremely hard to please console me a lot because when you take a step back and really but really look at them, even the attractive ones, you realize how ridiculous their demands are.

it's like a bankrobber who successfully got the money (most women are already better looking then men) turns to the bank teller and demands the necklace from the Titanic (wants model level girlfriends). like sir did you see the old lady threw that in the ocean??

so the average scrote can't be pleased only with good looks. and that doesn't even LAST. so many times I read that a scrote finally scored a Stacy and he fuck it up because he got bored with her and wanted another Stacy.

and the average scrote can make up for his lack of good looks with other things; charisma, jokes, being a "boyfriend material, and as a last resort money, power. but women can't do that. the base line is always good looks and everything else is just an "annoying" addition.

and what are the "high demands" of women??? A guy who doesn't use your vagina as a living fleshlight. A guy who actually connects with you. and this is fucking insulting to men???? are fucking kidding me???? Most men will get angry at this???

and that speaks volumes of how little their opinions are worth.

I think both things can simultaneously be true though, it’s not mutually exclusive. Everything you’re saying is valid but it is still true that men will have sex with anything. But I think it kind of shows the difference between the plight of ugly women and incels, its not about the sex. It’s about wanting to be desired and cared for.