I'm so sorry if rape was in your past and it is a traumatic event for you, if so, please don't read my post. I am not making light of your experience.
This is just a really black pilled kind of opinion of mine; I just wish I was so desirable that a guy would disregard the law and my consent and ravish me. When I tell my friends about this, they are shocked and offended. A few of them have been raped in the past. All of them have had male attention before. I just... I wish I even got that close to a guy where he wouldn't be able to keep his hands off me. I actually want to cry writing that. Nothing like that will ever happen to me. It's always me trying to pursue the guys.
And, there is of course, a complete lack of empathy when I even hint at this dark secret desire of mine, which only comes about due to my existence as such an unwanted, undesireable female - I'm sure that harboring a desire to be raped, something so many women are a victim of, shows what a sadistic, undeserving piece of shit I am - but at the same time, the fact that so many women are a victim of it and I am not just alienates me even more. I'm so sorry I'm so selfish, but, I guess I'm not that sorry, since I still harbor this fantasy.
And, I've talked to men on rape kink forums; they always assume it must be easy to get raped and there's no possible way I haven't had sex. And yet, upon some deeper digging, men actually still in the end, choose attractive women to rape. They won't rape a girl because she's inexperienced, she's vulnerable, she's alone - nope; they rape her cause she's attractive. They target and prey on her.
So even criminals don't want me, yay.
Oh, and blog update (yeah i'm just dumping my pink pilled secrets here today) I'm meeting a friend of a friend's in a couple of days for the first time. I've heard she was raped and from that trauma became a total man eater. I'll report back if the secret all along is that she's super pretty and small and tiny (I'm a tall woman) I just feel so ugly and miserable right now I don't want to go. At the same time, I'm so dying of curiosity to know what is the difference between a woman who is so attractive she's slept with high double digits of men, if it's a character or personality trait, or if it's really mother fucking appearances all along.
I really just want to tell them I'm not vaccinated and keep my mask on the whole time.
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the fantasy is about submission, it's not about rape. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-the-self/201411/don-t-call-them-rape-fantasies
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many blackpillers of both sexes are fucking deranged, so in that sense, i guess it is blackpilled
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this is so fucked but i relate. i don't even like men, i'm gay. i think i made a comment about this a while ago about how lesbians have a harder time realizing they don't like men than gay men do...we have a whole 'am i a lesbian' masterdoc that is very helpful and kind of a meme. but my point is male attraction is deemed so important. the most useful asset a women has is her looks, because that is what men like. we are told this our whole lives...it is normal to crave male attention even if you don't want it. as a teen i used to want to be harassed the way my friends were. i only got honked at from a distance. no one ever came up and was creepy or touchy with me like with them. occasionally i had very old men approach me...clearly attracted to the idea i was a kid, not my looks.
that being said, something else we have been told is that women get raped for being attractive. that's the case sometimes, sure. but not all gorgeous women are rape victims. and ugly women are also victims of rape. and less likely to be believed when it happens. people will rape animals, kids, and babies. as nasty as it sounds you could argue that is what these people find attractive. but for a lot it isn't just about that, it is about having power over a weaker victims. for a lot it is also whether they will get away with it, and opportunity. not just ugly women...but abused women, young women, women with mental health or substance abuse issues. they are easier to manipulate and less likely to be believed even if they do talk. as for opportunity it is getting to women who are not alone, wearing clothes that are easy to remove, not carrying objects that can be used as a weapon (umbrellas, purses, etc.). so much of it is stalking vulnerable 'prey' and that's the fetish for them. as pretty as some women are, even a lot of men have trouble getting off to someone who isn't into it. we need to rid of this idea that attractive women are the only ones who. it's about also about power.
there is also a lot more to be said not just about how male attraction is put on a pedestal and why women have rape 'kinks'. it's really not that uncommon. but it is a very traumatic topic for a lot of people and you should not just bring it up to your friends. i don't think you should look at a new friend who shared her dark trauma with you and wonder if it happened because she's pretty and petite. even if you had a partner it is something to be very wary of sharing. you'd have to find this magical person who is not completely turned off by the idea of someone they love begging them to stop during sex, or not way too into it so that they think they can sexually abuse you. but if you really want to be raped and seek it out that is an issue...you may think you want it but you don't. you don't want lifelong trauma just so some man can get off. you just want men to find you attractive.
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I can somewhat relate to this but man there's fallacy upon fallacy in your post and I think for your own sake they shouldn't be indulged
why are you entitled to any empathy for something that has scarred so many women? i don't think it makes you a piece of shit but I do think it's something you should actively work on ridding yourself of...
...rather than feeding by hitting up the actually sadistic guys who are into it which is incredibly dark. GIRL. just the phrase 'easy to get raped' is seriously concerning to me
regardless of what you read from guys on these forums, this happens constantly. it is literally happening to multiple women around the world as I type this. please don't let your self-hate blind you to the reality of what so many women face and what so many men do.
don't fucking go. do not. for your sake and hers. it is utterly grim and pathological to go check out a rape victim in order to use it as a stick to beat yourself with. the SECRET?? sis. do whatever you have to do to distract yourself from this until you are in a better enough place to really move on from it. movies? tv show binges? video games? idc just do anything else. it seems like you had a traumatic experience with a guy/rejection recently so you are in the worst possible space to be thinking about this right now at all.
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